Once again I encountered an attitude that always surprises me. I was accused of attacking the Bible when I said that it contains events that, from my external point of view, can only be described as deity approved horrors. Yet this same individual did not consider it an attack when they said that someday I would be forced to kneel before God and would go to hell or when they said that loving, committed, same-sex relationships are an affront on morality.
To some degree, all humans fall prey to the bias of their own perspective. Both of us considered ourselves to be making statements which, from our own point of view, fall under the category of painful truths, not attacks.
Yet I have found that some Christians (not all) quickly jump to the conclusion that atheists are on the offensive when they say anything less than complimentary about religion. They assume that a very specific comment has a very general meaning. Often, these same Christians then go on to say things as bad or worse than what was said to them, but they do not see themselves as attacking and claim innocence if their statements are pointed out.
An much smaller subset turns this into a persecution complex. These are people who really believe there is a war on Christmas. They truly believe that they are like the early Christians and society is trying to crush them out of existence. When you point out that Christians are the vast majority in this nation, they claim that most of those people are not "real Christians" (I always imagine that followed by a trademark symbol). Fortunately, these people, despite their prevalence on the internet, are a small group.
In the end, this biased perspective no longer makes me feel angry or hurt or insulted. But it has become tiresome.
ETA: Apparently, 24% of Evangelical Christians (the single largest religious group in the US) feel like they are part of a religious minority.
To some degree, all humans fall prey to the bias of their own perspective. Both of us considered ourselves to be making statements which, from our own point of view, fall under the category of painful truths, not attacks.
Yet I have found that some Christians (not all) quickly jump to the conclusion that atheists are on the offensive when they say anything less than complimentary about religion. They assume that a very specific comment has a very general meaning. Often, these same Christians then go on to say things as bad or worse than what was said to them, but they do not see themselves as attacking and claim innocence if their statements are pointed out.
An much smaller subset turns this into a persecution complex. These are people who really believe there is a war on Christmas. They truly believe that they are like the early Christians and society is trying to crush them out of existence. When you point out that Christians are the vast majority in this nation, they claim that most of those people are not "real Christians" (I always imagine that followed by a trademark symbol). Fortunately, these people, despite their prevalence on the internet, are a small group.
In the end, this biased perspective no longer makes me feel angry or hurt or insulted. But it has become tiresome.
ETA: Apparently, 24% of Evangelical Christians (the single largest religious group in the US) feel like they are part of a religious minority.


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Of course, it is not even slightly plausible that the majority of less-than-serious Christians would try to "crush" the minority of Real Christians. The majority generally ignores the Real Christians. Maybe sometimes they even cast funny looks at people who take it all seriously. But "crush" the Real Christians? No.
As for the Real Christians(TM), they seem to come in multiple varieties. There are the ones who say that the fundamentalists are not Real Christians(TM) because they don't follow the teachings of Jesus WRT turn the other cheek, etc. There are the ones who say that you can only be a Real Christian(TM) if you live your life by the letter of the bible, including the old testament. (I always got the impression that the new testament negated much of the old testament, but I haven't read it so I wouldn't know.) Then there are the Mormons, who say that God/angels/etc told them that all the other Christians were not Real Christians(TM) and that they were supposed to restore the Real Church(TM).